How it works
Why rate across multiple dimensions?
Real connections are multidimensional. Two people can be great intellectual sparring partners but terrible gym buddies. Or deeply emotionally close but professionally incompatible. These seven cover common ways people want to spend time and life together — keeping them separate lets you see where the overlap actually lives, not just whether there's any.
Why does the list always include all seven?
The fixed list is the whole point. Please don't assume any category is specific to you. Everyone gets the same seven.
How does the reveal work?
For each category, only the lower of your two scores is shown — to both of you. If you're a 7 and they're a 2, you both see 2. Your high scores are always private. There's genuinely no benefit to playing it cool & understating your interest — honesty is the dominant strategy.
Is anything stored?
Answers travel directly peer-to-peer between devices, and are never stored or shared.
Can I use this with someone else too?
Go for it — it's free. Each link creates its own private room, so different conversations stay completely separate.
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